So, I have been using peachesnstink for a while and I quite like it.
I understand that your main idea for this website is to create a website with self-moderation where users moderate themselves by having wishlists and blacklist of users but I don't think this would work well with a website line this where people come to meet 'new' people.
So, I was thinking of having a system where at first users can see posts from all other users but have the option to either 'blacklist' or follow them. It's quite obvious what 'blacklist' does.
I was thinking that there should be another feed that only shows posts from 'followed' users. This way, users can have both.
•A feed with posts from users they follow
•And a general (home) section of the website to meet new people.
Also, one more thing, there should be an option to filter posts by comment count on the homepage so users can read some juicy discussions.
I also have many other fundamental and quality of life changes for the website if you wish to hear.
Best of luck with you website👍